ANOTHER TWIST WITH THE PROTOCOL FOR SUBMISSIVES.Discover the..

ANOTHER TWIST WITH THE PROTOCOL FOR SUBMISSIVES.

Discover the importance of the BDSM protocol in communication between Dominants and submissives. Learn about proper treatment, courtesy formulas and how to establish a respectful relationship. This article explores the nuances of the protocol and its role in developing effective D/s dynamics.

The Relevance of the BDSM Protocol

The BDSM protocol is not complicated to understand, but its use is at personal discretion. However, it is highly recommended for several reasons:

1- Facilitates communication

2- Clearly establish the roles

3- Show respect and knowledge

The Importance of Communication

Some submissives, when starting a conversation, ask about the treatment after the greeting: "Do you prefer that I call you yours and what treatment do you prefer, Mistress, Mistress, Dominatrix?" Given this, one extracts the information that that person has knowledge and has read, has been trained or has been educated by a Mistress, which can greatly facilitate communication, which is what it is about. The most important thing is communication, if not, what real use are social networks?

Communication Difficulties

Another case is when the submissive begins with the familiarity. One finds out if he is submissive and he affirms. It is recommended that you move on to your treatment since I like the protocol. That warning or wish on my part is ignored, arguing that he will only use the protocol only when the Dominatrix deserves it. What does the submissive prove in this case? Who has difficulty understanding and accepting the Dominant's wishes, so clearly and quickly. Sooner or later you come into conflict with someone like that. The reason? That we don't know what it means to "deserve" for those submissives. How can what they require be made clear? How does One come to "deserve"? Through countless conversations, obviously for them they must be yours. Do I have to adapt to the submissive? Well no. So understanding each other in this way is complicated, if not impossible.

Rules and Regulations

Of course, I take my time explaining it and if they don't give in, then there's nothing I can do. Those of you who are in that situation, think: who makes the rules? The submissive? Is that why you are submissive? To lead and condition conversations? Surely not. Because if that is so, you should rethink what kind of submissive you are if you really were. Is it really necessary to start conversations with the Dominatrix? Unless Ella finds you fun, she'll most likely move on to the next one. Think and choose whether dignity should not be expressed through other means than confrontation in something as basic as protocol.

Denominations and Titles

If the Dominatrix with whom you start a conversation has a submissive as her property, she is a Mistress. There are quite a few Dommes who like to be called Mistresses without having a submissive, that is personal preference, since the Dominant is only a Master if he has a submissive or slave. Therefore, finding out what they want to be called is a good way to start a conversation. I particularly prefer to be called Madam. Of course, I don't believe the Goddess thing, no matter how much you insist on that term. I wish to be elevated to Goddess only for one specific person and as long as I earn it. That title seems bombastic and exaggerated to me. I imagine that there are some with self-esteem problems who need to proclaim themselves Goddesses, Bosses and titles like that. My self-esteem does not need to be praised by words that, after all, are empty. I understand that Madam is the only treatment that corresponds to me. I demand nothing more than common sense.

Conversations with Dommes

If you start the conversation with a Dominatrix or a Mistress, pay attention to what they explain to you and try not to get annoying. If he is interested in you, he will leave an open door to continue talking; If not, leave gracefully.

Farewells and Protocols

The more accustomed and educated submissives ask permission to leave if they are going to conclude the conversation. To me it seems a bit excessive in this world where we are all in a hurry and sometimes we respond quickly. But some protocol Dommes ask for that detail. If you ask permission to withdraw, you must wait for it to be given to you; If not, it is preferable that you do not use that formula. It's a gesture, yes, but it's not very meaningful if you ask permission and cut the conversation short. It is falling into disuse and has remained as a convention, but asking for permission is not uncommon. Maybe it will be useful for you to know it. There is a standard formula that is the farewell of submissives. They usually conclude with "at your feet" or "I remain at your feet." That would be the verbal gesture of a nod. That's how I see it. I don't think that the submissive will throw himself at my feet without knowing me. For me, the gesture is solely one of submission. It does not imply surrender, nor willingness, nor offering, nor that one throws oneself at His feet in despair. If you want to express some of the latter, you will have to verbalize it because that formula, as such, is only a polite farewell within the protocol.

Submissives in Property

If you have been lucky enough to be accepted by a Dominatrix, depending on what she decides, you can be a submissive for games or a submissive in property. Logically, She will dedicate herself to educating and training you so that you adapt to Her needs and desires. In this case, I tend to be strict with the politeness of the protocol. The treatment of Mistress or my Mistress is only for Her; My Lady or my Owner are usually common bonding formulas between the Dominatrix and her submissive.

Use of Pronouns

Another formula that is falling into disuse is, when writing, apart from using "You", capitalize the pronouns or direct objects that refer to Her. For example: "allow me to serve Her", "I am waiting for Her response", "every day I feel more Hers", "I am so happy to please Her". I think that throughout my writing it is deduced that the capital letters refer to the Dominants and the lower case letters to the submissives.

Protocol with Submissives in Property

If you start a conversation with a submissive, there is always a gesture towards his/her Master. The protocol is a phrase said when appropriate, which is usually "my respects to your Lord", it is a gesture towards their Master. The submissive is a reflection of his/her Mistress. Try to be worthy, then. If you screw up, if you talk behind your back, if you look for other things, if you are not polite, your Lord is revealed. I am very strict on this topic. As I am, it must be he/she. And not just me. The image that one reflects in this world of BDSM is very important. Keep this in mind if you want to be worthy of Someone.

Conclusion

The BDSM protocol is a valuable tool for establishing and maintaining respectful and effective D/s relationships. Although some practices are evolving, respect and clear communication remain essential.