Blog Post: Buying a dildo Say you have some cock curiosity a..

Blog Post: Buying a dildo Say you have some cock curiosity and you want to purchase yourself a nice little dildo*. Say you're a little shy and not sure how to use it. Porn Mommy CJ has some advice for you. * First of all, don't worry about making a perfect choice. Think of toys like kitchen implements, you have a spatula and a whisk and they aren't used for the same thing, there's no one toy to rule them all. * Unless size is your specific fixation, I would recommend a smallish one, under 5", less than 1.25" in diameter * Make sure it's body safe silicone for ease of cleanup and just generally being an awesome material for toys * There are smooth toys and toys with texture, toys that look 'realistic', even softies! Have a look around and see what appeals to you. Smoother will be easier to insert, if you want to go there, but texture can be exciting. Some will find realism to be a big turn on, some will find that abstract rainbow-coloured shaft to be a perfect fit. * You'll see that some toys are described as "dual-density", meaning there is a firm core to the toy (easier to insert, stands up and stays where you put it) and a soft outer layer (fun to squeeze, more forgiving to swallow). These toys can be a little more expensive but they feel much more realistic. IMO it's worth the extra investment! * If you plan to insert it, make sure it's got a flared base or balls so that it won't disappear where you don't want it to go. * Suction cup bases can be fun, but sometimes it's a trade off for harness wearability, so keep your end use in mind. * Buy some lube while you're at it! So many folks have told me they don't like toys, only to disclose that they aren't using them with lube. Silicone, like all rubber, can be grabby and (like an actual cock) will be MUCH more fun when it's slick and well lubricated. That's it for this first instalment, I have more thoughts on using toys to offer up in the next post. ** BOOK CJ: Cam to Cam or phone instruction is available for $40/15 minutes just drop a line with a tip and let's set it up! MUAH! ** ** image yoinked from https://phallophilereviews.tumblr.com/ check them out!